Hello little slaves,

This is an “educational post” with a twist and is aimed at my female audience. Dont worry little slaves, you can perv on it too 😛 Why don’t you let your wives and girlfriends read this so you can be caged soon too. I am going to explain why certain men should remain locked in a chastity cage. Only to be let out for torture and cleaning (if they deserve it that is :D). I will help you achieve this form of female led relationship with the tips I share with you in this post.

My tried and true methods should yield great results with any type of male but if your subject is already a bit submissive or if you have already started training him, you might as well order the cage for him and push through to the next part called “introducing the chastity cage”.

Those of you that have a male that is still very confident or even macho in his behaviour will need to do some ground work before you can start locking your slave in his new role. Don’t worry, I will help you with my tips . If you stick to your plan, any man can be bent and shaped to be the perfect slave for you.

Break his will

I will help you break down your male’s ego until he is like clay in your hands, ready to be sculpted to whatever fits your needs. You can train your male to become your private toy, safely put away behind lock and key. You can now expand on this training by specializing the slave for a certain role . The role you give your slave relies on the size ‘equipment’ your male came with. I mean, what else can you do with a man-clit than cock and ball torture?

Before you can start the fun stuff your male has to be broken in. You can compare it to catching a wild stallion, you can’t just toss a saddle on it. Likewise, you can’t just lock a chastity cage on your ‘stallion’. The keywords are baby steps and perseverance, but in the end the outcome clear. You will own his genitals. I like to follow a fixed pattern when breaking my male’s ego, attacking the core of what makes him feel like a man.

Make them sit!

Men inexplicably tie their gender and sexuality to the orientation they have when relieving themselves. A lot of them would object and heavily resist when you ask them to pee sitting. Yet this is precisely what you will make him do. Take away his perceived right of birth and make him pee like a girl, you can make fun of him too for added impact.

But how? How do you get him to do this when he is not yet brainwashed into obeying you? This is not as difficult as it seems. Just ask him if he thinks it is reasonable when people fix what they break. He will most likely say yes to this (or he is a psychopath and probably not worth your time). Next ask him if the same goes for cleaning up ones mess, and when he gives a positive answer to this question as well, it is time to spring the trap.

You break it, you fix it

Tell him that you clean the toilet every time he pees standing and that he himself agrees that this is unfair. He now has no other option to clean the toilet or face your “nagging” after each visit. At first they will try to get away with it but if you keep hounding them they will give up and start cleaning. Cleaning the toilet however is not what we are after..

Point out spots he ‘missed’ and make him clean over and over using bleach etc. Thank him for cleaning and putting in the effort ( so he doesn’t give up or decide the “nagging” is less of a pain than the cleaning), but always make him redo spots. The whole point of this drill is to make him hate standing to pee because of the clean up. When he is cleaning the toilet you can use the time you are supervising him to emphasize the fact that none of this would be needed if he sat down to pee.

So far every man I tried this on eventually gave in and sat down to pee like a good slave. Later when you reach the chastity cage part, he won’t even think about standing to pee anymore as it will just spray all over him when he tries.

Introducing the chastity cage

After you completed the first step and took control of one of his bodily functions, you can now slowly move on to take away the next. It is time to remove his focus from his genitals and sexual function. The way to achieve this is by using a chastity device, most people prefer using a chastity cage instead of a full belt, because it is a lot easier to conceal and also a lot cheaper.

Get your future slave to ‘accidentally’ look at chastity cages while you browse other toys with him. Imagine yourself to be the spider, weaving her web of seduction to lure in the unsuspecting victim. A sudden move would scare the pray out of your web before it got fully entangled in your trap. Instead, slowly guide him towards the Chastity toys and make him feel like it was his idea.

His first time in chastity

Most men are perverts anyway and anything that says sex-toy on the box will peak their curiosity. Remember, you only need him to try it on once before the slippery slope kicks in. Tell him how it would turn you on to know that you have such control over him (he will believe you because he thinks with his dick). The prospect of making a beautiful lady happy in that sense, is enough for most men to slip their little friend in a piece of plastic with a padlock, trust me 😀

Once he is locked in chastity you should give him extra attention. This is the time for tease and denial, make him go crazy for you. Pavlov your soon to be slave to associate wearing the cage with getting attention from you. Before you know it he will be looking forward to playing with it. When that happens you can start extending the periods of chastity. A good starting point is a two week period, this is the minimum amount of time it takes for an average male to become submissive when locked.

Behavioural modification

After two weeks you will see changes in your slave, he will be completely focused on you. The slave knows that the only way to achieve any release is through you as you literally hold the key to his orgasms. You would be surprised to see what a man will do in the hope to get unlocked and rewarded. If your slave gets pushy because he can’t control his hormones, you should double his chastity period, but cut out all tease and denial and instead completely ignore him. The slave must be conditioned to know that you are the one that initiates contact and that he should be respectful.

Choose the role you want your slave to fill

After all this hard work we finally ended up with a male locked in chastity, ready to do your bidding. Now it is up to you to decide what to use your newly created slave for. What role do you want him to fulfill? Maybe you want to have a toy on standby, ready to be used whenever you want. How about a personal butler, ready to serve you. The possibilities are endless. My Puppy for instance is my private torture object, the canvas for my BDSM artworks.

Living toy

If you have a male subject that is well endowed you can turn him into your living toy. Ready to be used whenever you feel like it and to be put back in the chastity cage as soon as it filled your needs. We do not care about pleasuring the slave, in fact, you should never let him achieve a full orgasm. However, I would advise you to tease the slave often and maybe even give him a nice ruined orgasm from time to time to keep him frustrated.

Frustrated males are easier to coax into doing whatever you want. They will do anything if they think there is even the faintest possibility of you touching their dirty little appendage. When you administer a ruined orgasm don’t forget to follow it up with a harsh punishment. I like to cane the penis until it is full of bruises and I always make my slave eat whatever comes out of his little friend. I’m not cleaning up that mess, that is beneath my status as a Goddess.

Don’t want no short dick men!

When your ‘male’ was not so lucky in the penis lottery (like 99,9% of my slaves here, check this for reference), we will need to find other uses for it. No women with an ounce of self-respect would ever consider any interaction of a sexual nature with such a worthless flesh-tampon. This kind of ‘penis’ will henceforth be referenced as a man-clit or a dicklet and is only suited for torture or ridicule and should be permanently kept in a chastity cage.

In these cases that involve a dicklet, I would also highly recommend (chemically) castrating your slave. Castrating the slave makes him even more obedient. A nice side effect of the castration is that it often immediately renders your slave impotent. This further reduces his ego, making him more susceptible to your control, but the best thing is that it removes the unwanted and in my opinion, very disrespectful erections.

Prevent erections

I absolutely despise it when a CBT slave gets an erection, it infuriates me to the core. It is as if the slave non verbally communicates to me that he wants to rape me. This I can not allow and thus I use extra modifications on slaves that still retain some erectile function after the castration. The first tool I use is prolonged periods of forced chastity. This works best if you install teeth or spikes in the cage so (attempted) erections are severely punished.

Having your little dicklet in the cage for a few months will prevent it from having (nocturnal) erections. Over time, the erections will get weaker and weaker as the erectile tissue is no longer used and atrophies. The atrophy of the erectile tissue not only results in erectile dysfunction but also causes the dicklet to shrink significantly 😀 Nice and small, perfect to fit your chastity cage.

Extreme cock and ball torture

The second tool in my toolbox of ‘male’ modification is cock and ball torture, well mostly ‘cock’ in this case 😀 When your broken and shrunk slave reaches this stage, we have finally reached the point where his little ‘penis’ can finally bring you some enjoyment. This is my favourite part of the process, the genital torture phase. In my opinion this phase serves three functions, the first and most important is your enjoyment in the experiments. Don’t be shy or hold back in any way, there is no Geneva convention for man-clits 😀 If you can dream it, you can do it.. Limits are for vanilla people.

The mindfuck of CBT

The second reason to torture and ridicule his little dicklet is to keep your slave in line. Show him that you can do whatever you want to him and that he just has to take it. Not many things will put a slave back in his place like the sight of you holding his bleeding and completely skewered dicklet 😀 If you train him well he will eventually find solace in his servitude and even feel pride when he can prove his worth to you by being a good canvas that doesn’t moan or wiggle.

Genital modification

The last but in no way least important reason to hurt and damage the dicklet is to build scar tissue in the corpus cavernosum. By doing this you will slowly destroy the erectile tissue and replace it with internal scarring that can’t absorb blood. No blood is no stiffy 😉 Poor poor slave.. I bet he wishes he was born with a real penis instead of a man-clit 😀 My preferred method of creating this damage is by skewering the ‘penis’.

Bigger needles cause more damage but they don’t slide in as nicely as thinner ones. This is a balancing act you will have to figure out for yourself, thicker needles means it takes more effort to push them in but less needles are required to achieve the desired amount of scarring. I personally like using 20-22G needles as they give a very nice mix of damage and ease of inserting. You can check my older videos and compare them to my newer work to see how much the dicklet shrunk. In the oldest (pre castration) clips you can see that it could still at least get a semi but now it can not even achieve that 😀

Well that is it for the chastity part, If you like theses kinds of tutorial posts I might do another one.

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Mistress Urnom