No safeword BDSM
Hello little slaves, it’s #nosafeword time 🙂
Safewords are one of the cornerstones of the BDSM community and lifestyle. Therefore people get really upset when you tell them that you don’t use any. Well let me tell you that I am firmly in the “No safeword” camp. The reason for this is that I consider safewords a restriction on the true control dynamic. I like to do CNC or Consensual Non Consent sessions where the outlines of the play are set in advance. Once these outlines are set we have the parameters to initiate our BDSM session.
I would not recommend Consensual Non Consent to beginners as it takes experience to know when to slow down. This is especially true if you play with different or new slaves. Maybe your slave was very brave behind his keyboard, but has no real experience. As a result the reality of you torturing his genitals might be much more than he could take in his fantasy world. You don’t want to kill your slave by sending him into shock etc. so it might be wise to get a feel for his tolerance first.
No randoms for me
This is the main reason why I am reluctant to invite random slaves to join a filmed session. As I would really hate it if I had to break off a filming session because the slave was an internet hero. Or even worse, the slave might panic when he is full of needles, this would be extremely dangerous. I do not want to get pricked by a needle and catch who knows what.
For that same reason live castration sessions are extremely difficult to arrange . Castration is the fetish that attracts the most internet jerkers by far. I remember when I first got started and wanted to fill my jars with testicles. Dozens of slaves volunteered and some of them sounded really credible, 100% of them were either a no show or just an online perv that wanted to be fed.
Topping from the bottom
What bothers me the most about using safewords is that they tend to facilitate topping from the bottom. This is when the slave is basically in control of the whole session and you the Domme are his living sex toy, or kink dispenser. I feel you will never really break your slave if he has the ultimate power to stop you. In that case, all you will achieve is finding his limit but never surpassing it. In my experience it is precisely this breaking point where the progress is made. It is like putting your slave in chastity but giving him the key!
I absolutely love the feeling I get when I look into my slave’s eyes as I slide a long needle through his genitals. The look of fear mixed with absolute devotion is priceless. My superiority over this slave is so great that I can push him past his limits while he submits to it. Something that would normally trigger a fight or flight response. This is why true sadism and dominance can’t be faked. Every semi prostitute with a Twitch channel can wield a whip, but very few can wield the power of the mind.
My weight is less than half of my puppy’s and he can lift me above his head, yet I only need to point and he sits, even outside. I trained him so well that he will never try to defend himself from my torture. Maybe it also helps that he knows he will be very smooth down there if he tries 🙂
If you want to see some of my work involving CNC you can find full length videos here https://www.castratix.nl/bdsm-cbt-mistress-urnom-full-length-video/
Most of the ball busting I have received has involved the female buster asking if I’m okay and can take more. I am up to the risk involved but they may not be so I respect that. Two sessions that were close so to speak for me involved choking with ball busting and needle play where when the needles were pulled from my penis there was a mini fountain of blood. I think the key is having a dominant who remains in control so they don’t end up with a problem that is unintentional.
I can understand that, especially since many slaves think they want things that they can not take in reality 🙂 For me it would take the fun out of it as it would reduce me to some sort of “ballbusting dispencer”. I do not want to know if you are still okay with what I am doing (TBH I do not care what you think about me kicking your balls). You signed up for the ride and now you have to ride it till the end, I decide when I am done.
My only limit is legality (I do not mind permanent damage like ruptures etc. as they are ‘accidents’ but cutting something off is considered a medical procedure without a license), this is also what prevents me from having a wall full of dicklets in jars 🙂
I also don’t use safe words. When I am in the hands of a Dom, only he decides for me. With the Master we also established that what is said by speaking, then it is done, even if I wanted something too extreme for me, my desire in a moment of perverse lust must be fulfilled. This is very beautiful and useful for degrading me and subduing me to the maximum.
Yes, that is the way it should be. CNC. set your boundaries first and then let it happen. . . even if you want to pussy out. Otherwise it is just fakery to me
yes Ma,am how right you are as a beta male slave what is the point in submitting ones self to a Lady if you are going to use safe words. a male submits to a woman entirely without limit
You understand it very well, little slave 🙂 If the slave is in control the ‘mistress’ is just a glorified sextoy
i’ve often thought the idea of a safeword seems to contradict the idea of a slaves limits being stretched or tested as well as fantasise about the total abuse a Goddess could inflict if She so desired. i can see here that it is possible for that abuse to go way beyond my previous thoughts and now my fantasy has grown. Thank You
neal
Safewords are for boring housewives and prostitutes 😉
Hahaha exactly how can a transfer of power occur if I can say stop
I’m 14 and like ball busting, I feel like safe words are pointless so I don’t have one. This did lead to me loosing my right testicle but my dom enjoyed the felling of taking my manhood well I suppose I should say boyhood, I think that she liked the idea that she can make me nutless at anytime and I’m fine with that ig it’s not my decision anymore, and she wouldn’t stop even if I wanted her to. If your gunnu be a slave be a slave all they way put your self all the way in I’m about to be testicleless soon and I’m only 14 let it happen even if you don’t want it to is what she says to me
I agree 100% 🙂
Wait how are you 14 and got a dom pls tell me i want one too